Have you ever noticed your dog giving you a “look” when you pet another dog or spend time with someone else? That’s not imagination—dogs can feel jealousy. Understanding it helps strengthen the bond between you and your furry friend.
What Science Says About Dogs and Jealousy
Research shows dogs exhibit jealous behaviors. In a 2014 study by Christine Harris and Caroline Prouvost, dogs nudged, barked, or inserted themselves between their owner and a “rival” (another dog or a stuffed animal). These behaviors suggest dogs feel the need to protect their social bond.
Dogs are social animals, and maintaining attention and resources is instinctual. Jealousy is a natural emotion that helps them secure these bonds.
Signs Your Dog Might Be Jealous
Dog jealousy is usually expressed through behaviors like:
- Attention-Seeking: Pawing, nudging, whining, or barking when you focus on someone else.
- Interfering: Jumping between you and another pet or object.
- Aggression: Growling, snapping, or showing tension when another pet gets attention.
- Destructive Behavior: Chewing or knocking over toys when they feel ignored.
Why Dogs Get Jealous
Dog jealousy is typically about protecting resources and social bonds, not malice. Your dog wants to ensure access to attention, toys, or even space. Unlike human jealousy, canine jealousy is instinctual and simpler—but still very real.
How to Manage Jealousy in Dogs
Managing jealousy prevents problem behaviors and keeps your dog happy:
- Share Attention Fairly: Spend one-on-one time with each pet regularly.
- Reward Calm Behavior: Praise or give treats when your dog stays calm around a “rival.”
- Teach Cues: “Wait” or “Leave it” redirects jealous impulses.
- Avoid Punishment: Punishing jealous behavior increases anxiety. Redirect and reward instead.
Final Thoughts
Yes—dogs can feel jealousy, but it’s rooted in instinct rather than complex human emotions. By recognizing the signs and responding with patience and guidance, you help your dog feel secure, loved, and part of the family—without the drama.
After all, jealousy is just their way of saying, “I love you, don’t forget about me!”